{"id":6872,"date":"2017-01-25T18:45:00","date_gmt":"2017-01-25T18:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/co-parenting-tips-divorced-parents-making-joint-custody-work-separation-divorce\/"},"modified":"2017-01-25T18:45:00","modified_gmt":"2017-01-25T18:45:00","slug":"co-parenting-tips-divorced-parents-making-joint-custody-work-separation-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/co-parenting-tips-divorced-parents-making-joint-custody-work-separation-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Co-Parenting Tips for Divorced Parents: Making Joint Custody Work After a Separation or Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<section id=\"intro\" class=\"clearfix\">Co-parenting amicably with your ex can give your children stability and close relationships with both parents\u2014but it&#8217;s rarely easy. Putting aside relationship issues to co-parent agreeably can be fraught with stress. Despite the many challenges, though, it is possible to develop a cordial working relationship with your ex for the sake of your children. With these tips, you can remain calm, stay consistent, and avoid or resolve conflict with your ex and make joint custody work.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<section id=\"content\">\n<h2>Co-parenting after a separation or divorce<\/h2>\n<p>Joint custody arrangements, especially after an acrimonious split, can be exhausting and infuriating. It can be extremely difficult to get past the painful history you may have with your ex and overcome any built-up resentment. Making shared decisions, interacting with each another at drop-offs, or just speaking to a person you\u2019d rather forget all about can seem like impossible tasks. But while it\u2019s true that co-parenting isn\u2019t an easy solution, it is the best way to ensure your children\u2019s needs are met and they are able to retain close relationships with both parents.<\/p>\n<p>It may be helpful to start thinking of your relationship with your ex as a completely new one\u2014one that is entirely about the well-being of your children, and not about either of you. Your marriage may be over, but your family is not; doing what is best for your kids is your most important priority. The first step to being a mature, responsible co-parent is to always put your children&#8217;s needs ahead of your own.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/articles\/family-divorce\/co-parenting-tips-for-divorced-parents.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">To continue reading click here&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n<\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Co-parenting amicably with your ex can give your children stability and close relationships with both parents\u2014but it&#8217;s rarely easy. Putting aside relationship issues to co-parent agreeably can be fraught with stress. Despite the many challenges, though, it is possible to develop a cordial working relationship with your ex for the sake of your children. With [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10677,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[148,137,139],"tags":[608,609,171,610,611,580],"age":[],"content-type":[],"persona":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6872"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6872"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6872\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10677"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6872"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6872"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6872"},{"taxonomy":"age","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/age?post=6872"},{"taxonomy":"content-type","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/content-type?post=6872"},{"taxonomy":"persona","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefyi.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/persona?post=6872"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}