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Learning to Love Again After an Affair

Is it possible to rebuild trust after your partner has been unfaithful? The loss of the relationship you envisioned can...

5 Simple Ways to Strengthen the Friendship in Your Marriage

“True friends are never apart; maybe in distance, but never in heart.” This quote rings true for couples. We all...

Breaking the Pursue-Withdraw Pattern

The pursue-withdraw pattern is an extremely common cause of divorce. If left unresolved, it will continue into a second marriage...

Why Do We Get Jealous in Relationships?

In an interview, John Gottman was once asked what to do about “insatiable jealousy” in relationships. His response hit on...

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How to be kind when you are upset with your spouse

One of the hardest things to do in a relationship is to be nice to your partner when you’re upset...

20 Questions to Ask Your Partner that will Deepen Your Connection

In this age of endless connection, we are more disconnected than ever and most relationships don’t go very far beyond...

How to Avoid the Pursuer-Distancer Pattern in Your Relationship

Jane: “Why do you do that?” John: “Do what?” Jane: “You ignore me.” John: “No, I don’t.” Jane: “We need...

How to make relationships work (Infographic)

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