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The Ultimate Courtship Roadmap:
Getting to Know Someone

You’ve met someone. How do you know this person is the one you want to marry? 

The resources in this section will help you assess for compatibility. This phase can initially feel awkward, uncomfortable, or confusing. But with an intentional process, you’ll soon find clarity about the relationship.

Have Meaningful Conversations

How you get to know someone for marriage will vary depending on your cultural context, family expectations, and personal preference. What is important is that you are both intentional and principled in your interactions and that your communication is purposeful and within Islamic guidelines.  

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What To Discuss
Before Marriage?
Everything!

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Past, Private, and Personal Experiences: How to Share with a Potential Partner

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How to Ask Others
About Your
Potential Partner

The Ultimate Courtship Roadmap: <br>Getting to Know Someone

Prepare to Pair

For the couple that’s courting, engaged, or ready to tie the knot.

Be Mindful and Observant

Stay critical, trust your intuition, and give yourself time to observe and address any concerns that arise.

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5 Relationship Red Flags We Don’t Talk About

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Green Relationship Flags To Look For in a Partner

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Appreciate the Process Regardless of the Outcome

5 Ways to Soul-Search Before You Spouse Search

Have you done the necessary work to ensure that you’re ready for marriage?

Seek Out Support

Below are some ways to utilize the support system around you during your courtship. 

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Should You Get Premarital Counseling?

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Involving Your Family the Marriage Process

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Resources to Help You Decide About a Partner

How Family Communication Impacts the Marriage Process

When talking to family about marriage, poor communication or mismatched expectations can make things challenging. These tips can help. 

For Parents:
How to Support Your Children Through the Marriage Process

Looking for more?

Check out the rest of the Marriage Prep Toolkit for resources on involving your family, troubleshooting, and more

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